Find the money that's yours to enjoy, no guilt. Two questions, no login.
Guilt isn't a savings plan. Money you've made room for is allowed to be fun.
Feeling bad every time you spend doesn't make you save more. It just makes spending miserable. Ramit Sethi, in I Will Teach You to Be Rich, splits take-home into fixed costs, saving and investing, and guilt-free spending, about 20 to 35% of what you bring home.
Your take-home, minus your non-negotiables, minus a chunk for saving. What's left is roughly yours to enjoy. An estimate, not a rule, and not a verdict on you.
Spend freely on the one or two things you love, and go easy on what you don't care about. It only works if looking at your money doesn't set off the dread, which is what the 10-second look is for.